softwedge:

gayhallmonitor:

gayhallmonitor:

you can’t demand people tell you why or when they unfollow

to elaborate, this is a now a very common trend on tumblr to demand people tell you why they unfollow. and it seems very transparent that it is about

•  discouraging from people unfollowing them because no one wants a confrontation, and there fore will continue to follow 
• someone says something that made you uncomfortable, is posting something triggering, and you are demanding that they explain what you did wrong, which isnt on anyone but you
• i understand that it hurts to lose followers, especially mutuals but to demand that people tell you as if they are breaking some kind of sacred blood oath is domineering and manipulative 

literally nobody on this entire site is important enough to warrant a “tell me why before you unfollow” that’s just some dumb shit